The Losses at Badr and the Vow
Hind’s father Utba ibn Rabi’a, her uncle Shayba ibn Rabi’a, and her brother al-Walid were killed at the Battle of Badr by Ali ibn Abi Talib and Hamza ibn Abd al-Muttalib. The grief she carried was immense and became personal vendetta.
At Uhud, she organized the financial and moral support for the Meccan counterattack: hiring Wahshi ibn Harb, an enslaved man known for his javelin skill, with the specific condition that he kill Hamza — “the destroyer of my heart” — in exchange for his freedom.
Wahshi killed Hamza with a javelin thrust during the battle.
The Mutilation
After the Meccan victory at Uhud, Hind — according to multiple early sources — mutilated Hamza’s body: cutting off his ears, nose, and reportedly eating or attempting to eat a piece of his liver. The Prophet, on seeing what had been done to his uncle Hamza, wept and swore revenge. A revelation then came: “And if you punish [an enemy, O believers], punish with an equivalent of that with which you were harmed. But if you are patient — it is better for those who are patient.” (16:126)
The Prophet chose patience and forgiveness rather than retribution in kind.
The Conversion
At the Conquest of Mecca (630 CE), Hind came to the Prophet in disguise as part of a group of women seeking to accept Islam. The Prophet gave the women their allegiance on conditions — no stealing, no fornication, no killing children. Hind asked questions that pushed back at each condition. The Prophet recognized her and she took her oath of Islam.
See also: Seerah Abu Sufyan, Seerah Ali, Seerah Umar Ibn Khattab, Karbala, Seerah Husayn Ibn Ali, Hijra