The Quranic Foundation (33:6)
“The Prophet is more worthy of the believers than themselves, and his wives are [in the position of] their mothers.”
This verse achieves two things simultaneously:
- It elevates the Prophet’s authority over believers above their self-authority
- It gives his wives a specific social relationship with the entire community — not biological mothers but mothers of a community, entitled to a mother’s respect and protective prohibitions
The protective prohibition in 33:53: believers may speak to the Prophet’s wives only from behind a curtain (hijab) — the Quranic hijab verse originally referred to this physical separation in the Prophet’s home, later extended to women’s modesty generally.
The Wives: A Social Portrait
Khadijah bint Khuwaylid (d. 619 CE, Mecca): the first wife, wealthy merchant widow, fifteen years his senior. She was the first Muslim, his greatest support in the early Meccan years, mother of all his children who survived to adulthood (including Fatima). The Prophet said after her death: “I never had a wife better than her.”
‘A’isha bint Abi Bakr: daughter of Abu Bakr; the most prolific hadith transmitter among the wives — over 2,000 hadith attributed to her. Her apartment adjoined the Masjid; the Prophet died with his head in her lap. She later participated in the Battle of Jamal against Ali (35 AH), a historical point of theological significance in Shi’a/Ismaili tradition.
Umm Salama Hind bint Abi Umayya: known for her wisdom and legal acuity; transmitted many hadith; present at the Treaty of Hudaybiyya.
Hafsa bint ‘Umar: daughter of ‘Umar ibn al-Khattab; became the custodian of the Uthmanic mushaf — the first written compilation of the Quran was kept in her safekeeping.
Zaynab bint Jahsh: married to the Prophet after her divorce from Zayd ibn Haritha (the Prophet’s freed slave/adopted son) — this marriage addressed pre-Islamic adoption practices and was specifically commanded by Quran 33:37.
The Scholarly Legacy
The wives of the Prophet were not passive recipients of revelation — they were active transmitters and interpreters. ‘A’isha alone corrected major Companions’ legal opinions multiple times. Umm Salama transmitted political and legal opinions. The community’s access to the Prophet’s private life and private practice came largely through them.
See also: Prophet Muhammad, Seerah Medina, Al Ahzab, Sahaba, Fatima Al Zahra, Bohra History, Seerah Final Years